Chastity and orgasm denial discussion

Today pet and I were having some playtime, so I settled down to test out all my new floggers. As the Flogger… I began with the horsehair flogger he picked from the LFF. It was a fantastic warm-up tool; his cheeks got nicely rosy as I found my rhythm. Next up was the thuddy suede flogger. Room constraints kept me from getting into perfect positions for even falls on both cheeks, but it had lovely weight and let me throw more power behind each strike. By then though, pet was already whining! Flogger #3 was the pretty blue flogger from SHE. It feels very soft, yet if you put enough wrist snap through it, it delivers a sharp sting. Even with what I consider to be only a short time under my belt, pet was starting to get restless. #4 was my favorite: a pale pink SHE cat with knotted ends. I must have tapped him gently twice before he decided enough was enough. I quickly took a couple of turns with the suede tie dye flogger from SHE, which pet said had a nice stingy sensation, but by then it was my turn! As the Floggee… Starting similarly, and knowing I am a pain slut, he began warming me up with the horsehair. I groaned happily into the pillow as he asked for my rating of 1/10. I thought about giving 2, maybe 3; mmmmm that feels nice and relaxing. As he started thrashing harder, making it feel like the flogger might break the skin, I explained that if I drop into subspace, it is unlikely I will safeword. I told him to keep an eye on my butt (LOL) and use his own judgment. I allowed this because we weren’t playing for long and he wouldn’t have enough power behind him to cause too much damage. Moving up to the thuddy flogger, I began reveling in the sensations. Beautiful tool; I really enjoyed being hit with it but wished it had gone on a bit longer. At that point, some important things came back into focus. While flogging pet earlier, I worried he might get bored, but experiencing it myself taught me that once good rhythm and accuracy are established, it is wonderful, relaxing pleasure. He was getting slightly frustrated as my butt turned super rosy while I kept saying 2, maybe 3 or even 4, so he thought he would put his power behind the blue soft-but-stingy flogger. A few falls landed between my cheeks, forcing me to lie flat on the bed and gasp a sharp breath. But eager for more, I pushed my butt back up and wriggled. I was called a slut. With pet flogging again using the blue one, I remembered that once pain levels rise, you need time to process what is happening. I made a mental note to watch the submissive’s breathing to help regulate the hits. I also realized that once that lovely peak of pain is reached, I would be more than happy to take several fast, irregular, painful strikes. Onto my favorite: the pink knotted flogger. I couldn’t wait for this one. I noticed pet was bringing the flogger through his other hand as he should, but asked him not to do that with this specific tool; I wanted the knots to fall splayed rather than landing in the same position. Unfortunately play didn’t last much longer because my horniness peaked and I needed to be fucked! LOL All in all, I was pleased to have played today from both sides and can’t wait for more practice… either way!