I am currently wearing a CB6000S cage controlled by my keyholder (my girlfriend). In this journal and blog, I plan to document our experiences and my reflections. This initial post will outline how we reached this stage.
Chastity has interested me for years, though I had never explored it with another person before. I have tried various self-locking methods like emlalock etc. My girlfriend was completely new to all of this; she is the first person I ever discussed it with. Although nervous, my confidence in our connection, trust, and shared love helped me bring it up.
Initially, a lot for her to take in, especially since the CB6000 isn’t exactly pretty-looking and looks quite fiddly with all its connecting parts. I was pleased that she reacted supportively without making me feel awkward about what I had shared. We tried wearing it on and off several times, but I don’t think it really clicked for either of us at the start, though I loved that we were trying.
It has been a while now, but there seems to have been a fairly long period where we stopped using it altogether before my GF suggested I wear it again. Things have moved quickly since then! Now I am locked most of the time when not with her. Since we are currently in a long-distance relationship, this usually means periods of two weeks at a stretch. My last stint lasted 10 days; the current one might be 15 or 16 days, though it is entirely up to her so it could vary.
My GF had no prior experience or knowledge of being a KH (Keyholder), but she does an incredible job. It amazes me how quickly she has found her rhythm. It is thrilling knowing that while I have ideas about what I might like, the power lies with her regarding our future. She could decide I don’t need to wear the cage for a month or allow myself to cum every week. Or perhaps she decides I must always keep it on and only removes it when she wants. Maybe she opts for me having ruined orgasms for a month instead. Not knowing what she will choose makes it so exciting. I believe I do my best not to push her into doing things or ‘topping from the bottom’; as much as possible, I want her to decide what she likes and dislikes.
Most importantly, what makes this wonderful is sharing it with her.