Introductions discussion

I usually skip these forum introductions, but as I dive deeper into this new lifestyle, I realize my situation is truly “different.” My wife and I are in our mid-thirties and we enjoy some kink without it being over the top or 24/7. About a month ago, she suggested locking me up in chastity. Before that, I wasn’t even sure male chastity was real. It turns out she had been doing her research and saw all the benefits for herself. She said no harm if I declined, but if I agreed to YES, there was no turning back until we gave it a fair shot. After reading up on it and checking out some off-the-shelf devices, I found the idea of surrendering my sexuality exciting. She knew I would jerk off in the shower before bed—not because our love had faded, but because our work schedules didn’t align, making it convenient for me. A few days later, she ordered a device that arrived at our door and was ready to be put on when I got home from work. After a few days of trial and error to find the right fit, I handed over the key, which she took with a big grin. “From now on, this only comes off when you want your dick inside me,” she said. The next few days were transformative. For the first time, my dick was no longer mine to use as I pleased. I found myself seeking her out more and showing affection like never before. Going down on her became a regular duty that I had neglected over the years. Each time, I hoped she would unlock me so we could have sex, but it often ended with her saying, “Thanks, I needed that.” She did unlock me from time to time, but only when and where she chose. This journey has been amazing—sleepless nights, frustrating days, ensuring she reaches orgasm while never quite knowing when my turn will be. I guess you could say we gave it a fair shot because I am now locked into an MM Jail Bird; the lock only releases me if I am also cuffed or restrained. After just one month, I’m starting to forget what it feels like to touch my own dick or make myself cum, with no end of chastity lockdown in sight. My wife has changed too. Her confidence is at a peak, and she no longer wonders when her sexual needs will be met. We are closer as a couple than we have been in our ten years of marriage. I don’t look at other women sexually anymore, nor do I visit the usual porn sites. All I think about is HER. Am I lucky to have such a woman? Many stories here feature men asking their wives or girlfriends and getting rejected, having to ease them into it just to try it out. So anyway, HI! I’m new here and love reading up on chastity while learning as much as possible!