Chastity and orgasm denial discussion

I’m fairly new to this place and have absorbed information rapidly. At first, I purchased a device without being aware of the site or what constitutes a good fit. It turned out to be too long and narrow for me. After reading that many men overestimate their measurements and would do better going smaller, I settled on a cage that kept my penis slightly folded, which led to a chafing sore forming in the crease. So, it was actually too short. Following several experiments with different devices, I’ve finally located one that avoids chafing and lets my penis rest comfortably, without becoming bothersome even if an erection starts to occur. Honestly, I barely notice it unless I need to use the bathroom or feel myself getting hard. If your device isn’t comfortable, identify what’s wrong and seek a model that satisfies all your requirements. It shouldn’t hurt or feel unpleasant unless it is designed for discomfort or you are erect. By the way, Chinese devices aren’t as interchangeable between rings and cages as people suggest; none of my current ones fit together with parts from others, even when they look identical in style.