I was considering starting up this group’s blog/journal after my introduction, thinking it might be enjoyable to begin a journal entry here. This first post will focus on me and my wife, our relationship dynamics, how we met, and where things stand with chastity now that we can move forward from there, right? Here goes:
My wife, Stacey, and I crossed paths when we were in our early 20s. I stand at 6’1” while she is a fiery redhead at just 4’10”! We were arranged on a blind date, and I knew immediately that she was the one for me. Nine months later, she became my wife. She recognized that I had a submissive nature and she possessed a dominant side, but back then, due to past relationships and her own body image issues, she was quite hesitant to assume that role. It took three years of our marriage—learning how to communicate effectively, learning how to live together, and understanding what each needed in a relationship before we even began exploring a domme/sub dynamic.
I enjoy cross-dressing, which she prefers not to be involved with, so it took me quite some time to overcome that aspect without being selfish. Our sex life had been vanilla, and things weren’t looking their best for us. One day I stumbled across an image online featuring a chastity cage. This happened during year 5 of our marriage. She was surprised when I brought it up, admitting she had always wanted to lock a man up. So, and this is the honest truth, reluctantly but wanting to add some spice to our union, I agreed, and we bought a CB600s.
We will pick up the story here; I have to run now and will post more details later.