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In the past I have tried self chastity and have had some luck, but lack 100% of the will power to stick to it. I was nervous about telling my wife about my desire to be locked up because I assumed she would say no and I did not want her constantly checking me to see if I was wearing my cage and get weirded out. My tries with solo chastity were fun. I would use an online automated KH site to help hold me accountable, but after a few days I would find myself going to get my emergency key. I did eventually ask my wife and she was less than willing to try it with me. It lasted about one day followed by her asking if I had gotten it out of my system yet. I just simply want her to have complete control over my ability to cum with the constant physical reminder and use chastity to aid in loving her more and treating her better outside of the bedroom. I have had to stop with my solo chastity in the past few weeks. We just moved and I threw out my old knockoff CB600s and have just ordered a replacement from Amazon that will hopefully be more comfortable for long term wear. I hope once I receive the new device that I can begin starting solo chastity again, and get my wife to understand and play along too. Does anyone have any recommendations of how to hold myself me accountable with solo chastity and what to do with my keys? Also, has anyone ever brought chastity up to their wife and gotten a similar response?