Introductions discussion

Hello everyone, I am curious about chastity and decided to join the forum so I can learn from you all while sharing my own experiences. My first device is on its way; it’s a Chinese model that has received positive reviews on Amazon, and it should arrive this week. I’m a married man in my 40s, but since my wife is quite vanilla, this will be mostly for me. I am primarily pursuing kink. I enjoy reading stories and looking at photos of men wearing devices. Another reason is to use it as an aid for self-control. Since I have read extensively on these forums and others, I know that cheaper Chinese options might not be the best for control purposes, but everyone has to start somewhere. If this works out well for me, I will invest in a proper device later. Another area of interest related to chastity is prostate stimulation. I purchased an nJoy Pure Wand and am still figuring it out. Any tips would be much appreciated. I also have the small nJoy plug on order; I was really impressed by the quality of the wand. Previously, I experimented with another prostate stimulator which I liked before it got damaged. I look forward to getting to know some of you and reading about your journeys. I’d especially love to hear from other married men who are practicing this without their wives’ involvement.