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Hello everyone, Here is my brief experience and path into chastity. Today marks day 60 since I got locked up. For me, it began as a bit of fun and a way to demonstrate My Mistress how much I love and adore her. My Mistress had been working away on a 2&1 roster for two weeks before returning home for one week. I can’t recall exactly where I first encountered chastity, but it intrigued me so I did some research and decided I’d like to give it a try. So I received permission to purchase the Holy Trainer 2 device. When it finally arrived, I was delighted. Just as I was getting ready to try it on, I had an erection. Naturally, I had to calm things down. Once I got it on, I knew this was for me. I was amazed by how it felt not being able to get a full-blown erection and the pulling sensation on my sack—wow! Mistress returned home a few days later, and I was able to explain what it was like not being able to orgasm, and how horny it made me for her. It felt as though it were my gift to her while she was away. The key was sealed and put up when Mistress left for work again. I just fell in love with the experience; I wrote down each day how I was feeling and what it was like thinking about Mistress, not being able to get fully erect or cum. I can’t tell you how proud and happy I felt achieving two weeks. I remember Mistress coming home after my two-week stint and taking off my cage. We made amazing love; it reminded me of the first time we were intimate—so special. At that time, I would never wear it while Mistress was at home. Things got busy at home and Mistress fell ill, which put an end to chastity for a bit, and we moved house around that same period. I started really missing it, and Mistress Claire gave me permission to go back into chastity while she was away working. I had read that chastity can help make you feel more submissive and more attentive to your Dominant; initially, I was skeptical, but I soon changed my mind about that. Every time I thought of Mistress, I got butterflies in my stomach over emails. As the two weeks came to an end, I was always on a high; everything felt so beautiful emotionally. When I did have an orgasm it would be unbelievable, but then everything would drop back down to what you might call a normal level. Your hormones do change, and your attitude changes with them. Mistress moved back home, and for whatever reason, chastity gradually stopped; even the D/s side of things slowed down. I think I made an unconscious decision to try being vanilla, like everyone else so to speak. I was the one who suggested my partner become my Dominant, and at the time, I felt a bit guilty about it. Maybe she was just pandering to me; all sorts of rubbish were going through my mind. I started feeling down and not quite myself. Mistress noticed obviously but left it for me to work through until I finally came and spoke things through. She explained that she was happy now being my Dominant and didn’t want to go back to a vanilla relationship. This made me feel so happy and proud. I went back into chastity with just short lock-ups, basically as Mistress wanted her cock it would come out. Mistress then had medical issues, and it became sore if we had too much intercourse. Out of the blue, Mistress said she would be OK if I took on a girl for casual sex. As you might expect, I refused the offer; I even offered to be castrated. Mistress refused and said she could never do that to me. I was relieved but I would have done it anyway. I asked to be put into permanent chastity, and so it began. After the first month, things changed for me: I was getting fewer erections, yet I was always horny for Mistress. Seeing her naked or in her lingerie drove me wild; never mind watching her walk with her beautiful ass. Even when I brought Mistress to oral orgasums, I started having emotional and psychological ones too, which are so much more beautiful than the physical ones to me. This helped Mistress feel a lot happier about keeping me denied from physical release once she understood how I was feeling inside. It lasted three months—the best sexual three months of my life. One night, Mistress wanted her cock back, so I was released. To be honest, I ejaculated as soon as I entered Mistress. I did stay hard enough to satisfy her though. The humiliation I felt was also beautiful and true. Being a complete submissive showed me that I am no longer the real alpha male man. I hated cumming; I hated losing the level of submissiveness that had built up in me—it’s very hard to explain. Mistress got a bit sore afterwards as well, for the first time in three months too. So again, I asked Mistress to permanently put me in chastity this time for good, and thankfully she agreed. I also told Mistress that in the future, if she wants penetration, we should line up Bulls for her. I wish to be her cuckold. Mistress isn’t interested yet, but the option is very much there for her, and that’s the important part. I won’t lie; it turns me on thinking about sucking another man to get him hard so he can then satisfy Mistress. I have started asking Mistress, when I’m orally satisfying her, to call me pathetic and a sissy, saying how completely useless I am—it just drives me wild. But recently something happened outside the bedroom where she called me a suck and then a sissy suck. I was quite shocked but told Mistress how turned on I got afterwards and genuinely thanked her for becoming the most beautiful Dominant to me. Thanks for reading my chastity journey so far.