Hi everyone! Briefly put: I’ve wanted to be kept in chastity by my partner for years. We gave it a go, but it didn’t stick at first; she felt overwhelmed because everything happened too quickly. After taking six months off, we recently restarted in an unusual manner. One evening, I declined sex with her. Admittedly, I’d been masturbating to my fantasies 4-6 times daily, and I believed this overindulgence was killing my desire for intercourse. So when I saw her next, I shared this theory while wearing my device and handed her the keys.
It’s been about three weeks, and it’s going quite well. Our two main rules are that I stay locked whenever she wants or when we’re apart, and I can’t touch myself unless she permits it. This means I’m in the lock a lot lately. Taking things slowly has made this second attempt much less stressful for her.
My question: how can I help move things forward? Right now, I am locked frequently, but there isn’t much teasing or denial happening yet. She is gradually getting into it all, which I love, but do you have any suggestions for small adjustments she could make to keep my chastity and tease-and-denial fetish thriving? I’m open to everything! Thanks!