Chastity and orgasm denial discussion

( I shared this in my diary, but it really stands on its own - after all, it marks a significant shift in our dynamic:-) My skin has been numbed by the banding, and sensation is creeping back… maybe just a touch too slow for my wife? I suppose - LOL! AN UNFORGETTABLE FIRST TIME! The Anne-weekend ritual returns.:-) Beforehand, my wife announced “special plans,” and she was absolutely right. I prepared a beautiful dinner while Anne mixed drinks and set the table. My wife drifted gracefully above it all, offering compliments as she sipped her chilled chardoney… Just how it should be:) We enjoyed a lovely meal and some pleasant vanilla talk, with the twist that Anne and I were seated bottomless on our chairs. An inspection showed I needed a shave, so after eating we were told to “go sort it out,” while my wife took a stroll in the garden with her wineglass. We could watch her through the window in all her glory as she walked around, glowing under the evening sun.. BUT, before heading to the bathroom, Anne received special instructions: warm up my wife’s toy, and not by blowing it! “He still feels almost nothing - I think I know how to bring his senses back quickly,” - and then she handed Anne a small wooden paddle from the kitchen. “Use this to wake him up - but only on his member, nowhere else. Be sensible but don’t hold back. I want to see him smooth, erect, and slightly sore when I return.” was what I remember her saying… Anne asked “How??”, but my wife just replied: “You’ll manage,” handing over the cuffs for me so she could secure my hands behind my back - and then left the room… Waauhh, not quite punishment, more like a labeled “warm up,” but it amounted to much the same. My wife had ordered some rough treatment for her toy. It would certainly top off the biting that started days ago… I never really thought she’d take such a step… I was secured nicely after I shaved her. Easy enough; she was already bottomless too, and I can say with confidence that she is indeed a stunning woman:-) All smooth sailing for my turn now, but she began by securing my hands behind me. Then she knelt down to shave me… I didn’t get an erection during the process, probably due to the numbness… After shaving, she tested my sensitivity while looking slightly uneasy,-) so I told her not to worry and tried my best to calm her. I promised to let her know if it hurt too much and joked that I might not feel a thing at all:) She asked how hard, so I told her it was up to her. I reminded her to keep my wife’s simple instructions in mind… She asked me to spread out and rolled back the foreskin, exposing the head., then took a swing… which landed on the shaft. “See - I barely felt that,” with no redness starting to show yet… so I told her she might need to go harder and aim for the head… The second blow was harder, but still not much of a challenge. I stayed silent. That must have triggered something because the next couple of blows were significantly stronger, and I really started feeling the sting upon impact, along with a burning sensation as the effect faded.. She looked up at my expression, but I quickly closed my eyes before we made eye contact;-) - and soon she continued. I could definitely tell she was aiming for the head, and I began to have some “ticks” and reflexes in my body; instinctively, I tried to avoid the strikes. “Spread your legs again,”- I was told, and I think she delivered six or seven more blows - really getting into it, I sensed;-);-) “I think that’s enough,” she said, then dropped the paddle and began testing the results. She seemed quite pleased with the obvious redness as well as the strong erection that resulted. At first, she touched it by hand, and for the first time in days I could feel it oh so clearly; it was sore, but I have to admit, I liked the feeling. Then she pinched the head a couple of times, indicating she had hit home more than once. It brought a sore burning sensation. But when she then placed her warm lips on the head and sucked - just once- I experienced one of the most wonderful feelings you could imagine… I couldn’t resist making “OOOhhhhhh” and “Goood” and “Thanksss” noises. Well, there was no more blowing needed. She seemed satisfied and relaxed that it was done. She uncuffed me, and together we went to the kitchen to finish cleaning up. My wife came in and asked how it went; both of us flashed big smiles, and Anne said: “I think I managed.” My wife looked at her toy, took a very firm grip, and based on my obvious reaction, she smiled and said: Well done, I knew you could handle it. With glasses of wine in hand we followed her to the master bedroom. Besides watching the action unfold, I was indeed treated with PIV and blows directed at my still-sore member. I loved every second… The two are still asleep entangled this morning as I write this. No, I didn’t sleep on the floor; We all spooned last night:) I will prepare a lovely breakfast for them. After yesterday’s ordeals, both of them