Hello all. I am relatively new to the world of chastity and have a couple of questions where some guidance would be appreciated. Here is my background so far: roughly eighteen months back, I purchased a CB3K and started experimenting with keeping it locked on continuously. I’ve now dialed in what feels like the best fit for comfort and security, trimming the guide posts as needed, among other adjustments. Up to this point, my longest stretch without any release has been 21 days. My goal is to stay locked up for about a month at a time (or longer if my Lady decides that’s preferred). The pain caused by nocturnal erections is currently an issue for both of us. While we are excited about the prospect of me staying in chastity long-term, she worries about how it will disrupt our sleep cycles and cause lower-back discomfort due to the device pulling away from my body during those involuntary night-time erections.
My main question: Are there specific devices that members here use or own which help reduce nighttime pain associated with extended wear? I’ve noticed some designs feature an open end; does that design actually make a difference? Additionally, I have come across information about Prince Albert and frenum piercings, but I am still trying to understand how they integrate with the device. Are these piercings directly connected to the apparatus? Do they somehow stop the penis from sliding back into the tube or slipping out through the rear of the cuff ring? Lastly, what are the potential long-term or permanent effects of male genital piercings? I appreciate any insights you can share on these subjects beforehand. Great site by the way! Happy to be joining now! Best regards, Maid Madeleine