Introductions discussion

Hi there. I joined this community roughly three weeks back while researching chastity, and it was an obvious find for me. My fiancé attends school about four hundred miles away, which is a bit of a pain, but I manage to visit at least once every quarter whenever the academic workload allows for a long weekend. Our dynamic is somewhat switchable d/s; I take charge sometimes while she does others, and we both get the best of what each world offers. I tend toward dominating more often than submitting, though either way works. We picked up a CB6000 because I wanted her to be my sole source of sexual release, receiving it in early December 2008. These boards have been incredibly helpful for all the questions I had, so I appreciate everyone who takes the time to share their stories. We managed a trial run during winter break before she took possession of the key, and I discovered that pull-out isn’t too hard since I am apparently a ‘grower’ or something similar. To fix this, I crafted a belt using wire rope and created a harness with one lock; it is nearly impossible to pull out now, so my device feels inescapable unless I grab some bolt cutters. The tricky part for me is being uncircumcised, which complicates things like edema. So far, I have gone two weeks without an orgasm—a small price to pay—but that first week apart was tough because just the idea of being locked up turns me on greatly. After that initial period, it becomes quite manageable until she starts teasing, once bringing my balls down significantly. Chastity is definitely for me now; I want it as a lifestyle with her and we are both happy with this arrangement. While I admit chastity pushes me into a more submissive mindset, I am also eager to embrace being the sub when needed, since we truly enjoy both roles. My goal is eventually getting a Lori’s device, which means getting an ap piercing; hopefully, it will work well even with my foreskin present. A steel belt looks much cozier than what I have now too, but those are luxuries for later as I am one of those broke fifth-year college students! Anyway, just wanted to say hello and stop lurking so I can share how the 6k is working out despite its quirks.:chores008: