I’ve been watching her here and there for a bit, so I decided to hop in. My spouse and I have dabbled with chastity intermittently over the years, but we only began using a device—specifically a CB6000s—earlier this year. I don’t wear mine around the clock just yet; it’s usually after dinner or when my wife isn’t home with me. She primarily uses chastity to modify behavior. It started as control over masturbation, then expanded to getting more chores done, and now helps her shed pounds. My spouse mixes in corporal punishment alongside chastity, which works well for me. I suppose we could call it a reward-and-punishment style of chastity. Our dynamic is mostly about humiliation, right now centered on my weight loss. There isn’t much physical discipline because I generally comply with what she asks since her paddling stings quite a bit.:) We’ve cycled through several fetishes throughout our marriage, but most were in the early days. After that long stretch of being vanilla, we discovered chastity, gave it a shot, and really enjoyed it. That covers my story.
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