Hi all. Here is the situation: I can’t wear a device because of my anatomy (my testicles sit high and close to the torso), which I am confident would make things difficult during the day—not to mention that I only sleep on my stomach. Conversely, the honor system has always appealed to me.
The question is, how do you prove fidelity? I’m not asking because I want an excuse to cheat; rather, I’d appreciate some sort of “proof” or seal. I understand sincerity matters most, but this relationship will be with a woman I met on FetLife, not my wife. Realistically speaking, even if it sounds harsh, mere honesty isn’t quite enough right now. Since there will be plenty of teasing involved, what exactly demonstrates that you haven’t released semen independently? Is it the presence of precum during play? Does your penis respond to light touch with ejaculation? Or perhaps nothing happens at all? Any advice would be greatly appreciated.
Cheers! p.s. English isn’t my first language, so any errors are due to that.