I’m totally new to the world of chastity. What I truly need is to stay locked around the clock, every day. But when my key holder isn’t nearby—since she hasn’t taken possession of her keys yet—I tend to take some time off for myself. The reason she doesn’t have them right now is that we only see each other weekly. This past Monday, I finally got my cage fitted. Up until now, the longest stretch without an orgasm or even touching something belonging to my key holder was two and a half days. Recently, after about one and a half days, I gave in again and touched what’s inside my cage; this time, however, I managed a ruined orgasm with very little fluid released. From that experience, I realized it will be harder if I let her keep just one of the keys instead of both. Since we don’t live together, it makes sense to hold onto one key for emergencies only.
Now that you know where I’m at, here is my question: For someone who has recently begun their chastity journey and wants to commit to 24/7 lockdown, what rules do you have in place with your key holder?