To get it over with quickly, yes, I am ordering them from AliExpress. I bring this up because I worry you might make fun of me. While I’m fairly confident in my choice, the problem isn’t their quality. Let me give you a brief overview of my chastity journey (feel free to jump straight to cage #6 for the main drama).
I started doing orgasm denial and NoFap after playing Virtual Succubus, but it was actually Sissy University that practically forced an AliExpress link into my face so I could buy a real-life cage. Ironically, this first one was a Holy Trainer which I never ended up buying anyway. But I bought another one eventually. After checking out some PornHub reviews of various devices by Sissy Joyce, I spotted a dolphin-shaped cage on AE. (Just to clarify, I’m not really into being sissified; I just have an open mind.)
Cages #1 (dolphin shape, plastic) and #2 (fish head, plastic) were purchased on the same day. They turned out to be a bit too long with their 65 mm tubes, but I don’t regret it because I can still achieve an orgasm while caged through friction alone if I try hard enough.
Cage #3 (perforated plastic) is a source of embarrassment for me. It’s practically useless because the rings are way too big.
Cage #4 was a serious attempt on my part. It has an openable ring, 38 mm tube length, plastic construction with bars for easy cleaning, and that riveted/openable ring feature—what could possibly go wrong? First off, I realized cages #1 and #2 aren’t the only ones where the smallest ring is hard to use because the gap between the ring and the tube vanishes. Whatever, I figured the 43 mm ring would still work for me. But then came the slide! This led me to discover a second issue: cages #1 and #2 stay up well with their 48 mm rings because the tube extends backward behind the ring (similar to the Holy Trainer). My current cage misses this feature, as do most metal devices. (Despite this flaw, I managed to wear it for two days and one night, having a decent chastity experience with absolutely zero stimulation.)
Cage #5 was my first metal cage. I didn’t plan on buying one originally, but there was a massive summer sale (a 20 USD metal cage for just 3 USD, lol; though I actually paid 7 USD). It slides down constantly. The original 45 mm curved ring slides easily. Even the other circular ring I ordered at 40 mm doesn’t fit perfectly into the cage structure but still manages to slide off anyway—double money wasted.
Finally, let’s get to my current headache: cage #6. I decided the issue was definitely ring size. So I searched for the smallest physically possible ring and found it. Metal cages with riveted/openable rings down to 29 mm in height! They have a bar design and cost 13 USD. Surely this can’t fail, right? Unless the ring is too small and my balls fall off?
Is it actually too large? Or do I just not understand my own anatomy? As some suggest, maybe my scrotum sags more because I’m a ‘grower’? Either way, even this smallest cage ring I’ve seen in that store makes the whole thing slide down! How is that possible? And here’s the kicker: because the ring is so tiny, it takes me 30 agonizing minutes to put it on. No joke. My willpower is strong, and I repeated this process three times; each time the cage slid less than before, but it still isn’t worth the torture.
What am I doing wrong? Is there any hope for me? People have mentioned holding strings, underwear, or even full-metal chastity belts. I know “ball-trap” devices are a bit of a meme to some folks, but I was pretty sure that 29 mm ring would grip my scrotum! Given all this, how can anyone claim that an expensive 300 USD custom cock cage will fit me properly?
Also, as mentioned earlier, the fish head cage stays in place better because its tube extends behind the ring. This effectively covers more of the base of my penis. But it seems like no metal cages have adopted this design? Except for those weird full-metal Holy Trainer knockoffs. Any ideas why that is?
Overall, I’m feeling pretty down about it all. I’m not superstitious, but in the final analysis, I feel doomed. There are still options to try:
- Holy Trainer V4 Nub/Mini - likely wearable, but it’s a fully closed design and I’m wary of how flexible that bioresin material is;
- Vice - heavily advertised everywhere, expensive (costs a lot), has anti-pullout features, yet after everything described above, I don’t see how it won’t be useless for me too;
- Mamba 3D printed cages - the tube design is similar and their smallest ring is 38 mm—these offer little hope. Piercing is definitely out of the question for me. Honestly, even if I did get pierced, I don’t think it would help much; the cage would still slide down.
That said, I don’t want to discourage anyone reading this because I have gotten quite a bit out of this journey so far: 1) caged orgasms that require great effort after at least five minutes of an immense leap of faith in my ability to cum (a huge contrast to trying not to cum too early); and 2) I even experienced my first ever milking while wearing cage #6, thanks to gentle backward motions from a buttplug. It was microscopic, yes, but it counts as proof that the concept works. But I really need to know there is a solution.