Question One: The Process of Milkings

Hello, I have two queries tonight but decided to create separate threads because they are distinct issues. Sorry if this breaks forum etiquette a bit. I’m still fairly new here and currently without a keyholder, so all my chastity rules are self-imposed. Question #1: For reasons not worth diving into, I can’t stimulate myself through anal penetration (due to surgery in that area; the prostate is hard to reach this way, and things don’t fit well). Anyway, I know there are various “milking” techniques, so here’s a two-part question: A. Aside from anal penetration, what do people recommend? I’ve tried different vibrating devices around the house. They feel good but don’t quite get me over the edge. I recently bought a Magic Wand which seems to be highly regarded, so hopefully it provides enough power for the job. Any other ideas? B. This part is more for keyholders…what’s an appropriate time between “milking” sessions? A week? Two weeks? Does it vary by individual. I’m trying to establish a good routine while I look for my keyholder (if that ever happens). I don’t think lacking an appointed keyholder should grant me special privileges. I am what I am and want to understand what is reasonable to expect if the time comes. All input is welcome. Thank you.