Key Holder Pleasure and Orgasm Frequency

Hello I have a question for both the female Key Holders out there as well as their caged male partners. I am kept chaste for typically a month to 6 weeks at a time before I receive an orgasm. During my chaste periods, as with most chaste men, I have great desire to do things for my wife and make her happy. I do a large amount of the house chores, I help as much as I can with daily responsibilities with the kids etc, I cook dinners almost every night… and I also give her quite a bit of body massages, usually one to two a day. One almost every night before bed. I am aways hugging her and wanting to snuggle up to her. But my ultimate desire is to pleasure her with my tongue until she has had multiple orgasms. I would do this every day as much as she wanted. I feel fulfilled and satisfied when I see the glow on her face after she has had 30 minutes of constant licking and a number of small to large orgasms. She just radiates. She tells me how unbelievable she feels. BUT… The thing is - she also tells me she does not want it that much. She always tells me “Women just do not need to orgasm that much”. I know everyone is different - everyone has different levels of desire. But I read a lot of the chastity blogs out there - from vanilla - to very kinky. I read the forums etc… and what I see is that there are indeed a good amount of Key Holders wanting orgasms on a regular basis. My wife would be satisfied with one a week if not less. I tell her it makes me so happy to do it for her and when she deny’s me the chance to do it I feel upset and hurt. I feel rejected. I know I am topping from the bottom and being selfish on this but I really do have this deep down desire for pleasuring her in this way. I would rather pleasure her than receive an orgasm myself. I would skip my orgasms and go extra weeks without one if it meant more opportunities to pleasure her to orgasm. So - Key Holders out there - how many orgasms do you typically receive a week from your chaste partner? Is it because you truly want them or because you feel you should be intimate in this way with your partner? Caged guys, how often do you typically satisfy your Key Holder? As you progressed through your chastity journey did that change for the more or less?