Yesterday my spouse handed over control of my cage to me while keeping it secured inside our portable lock box, retaining possession of the keys herself. She instructed me to leave the container in the drawer beside her side of the bed until I desire intimacy. When ready for sex, I place the box on the table near her side, and she decides whether or when to release the key.
Conversely, if she desires intimacy, she leaves the keys on my bedside table, allowing me to determine whether and when we unlock it. The manner in which she presented this proposal suggested a playful challenge, so I placed the box inside my drawer. Last evening, she asked if I wished for sex, and I agreed. She then questioned why the box wasn’t sitting on her table as expected. I remained silent and turned the question back to her desire. When she declined to state it directly, I asked whether the absence of keys from my side meant she didn’t want intimacy. She replied that there was only one way to discover the truth. When I pressed for clarification, she simply repeated that she wouldn’t say. It is clearly a game in progress. She hopes to see who yields first; knowing me well, the odds favor her. She can tease and deny me endlessly, whereas my ability to do so tops out at thirty minutes. Regardless, I have accepted the challenge, and we shall observe how events unfold. I am curious though: does anyone else here possess experience with a cross-Keyholder dynamic?