My HK and I have been having an ongoing discussion about how things will proceed. Regarding orgasms, we are thinking that … . I have given my wife the keys and now she is my key holder. She decides when and how I get an orgasm; they are hers to give, no longer mine to take whenever desired. So, any orgasm I receive is a gift, a present from her. People don’t get presents every day, week, or month. My wife muses, “How many times did you give me gifts in the last year? My birthday, Our anniversary, Christmas, Valentines Day - that’s four. Oh and a couple of unexpected surprises too. Sometimes more than one gift for an occasion but not always. Sounds about right for you: a present every other month or so.” Let’s see Grinder — You got an especially nice present just a little while ago, a shiny steel chastity tube. Seems like you shouldn’t expect another present until our anniversary in October. But we have a trip planned for September where we have to clear airport security - maybe that’s time for an unexpected surprise, we’ll see. So we are agreed? Right? Grinder could get the tube off his penis without the key if he wanted to. The KH could give Grinder the keys back if she wanted to. But none of that happened, so we are good. Grinder is happy to take care of his key holder’s needs as she prefers. My key holder is happy to ensure Grinder stays chaste for as long as it pleases her, in this case from now till the end of summer. The Grinder PS I will be sure to write a nice thank you note for every present I get. It is rude not to write a note; sometimes gift givers think their presents were unappreciated and do not send one the next time around if you forget to write.
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