member_c9916f3468 Newcomer Thread starter
Having just entered the world of wearing chastity devices (it’s been about six months, maybe a bit more), I never anticipated that my wife, who holds my key, would do these specific things:
- Stay firm: even when the device is off, she doesn’t let me touch myself without her say-so.
- Claim ownership of my penis and testicles—she quickly started talking about them as being hers now, referring to any orgasm I might have as belonging to her too.
- Take charge of my backside as well—quickly banning solo rear play unless she permits it. (Early in the morning showers became a daily routine for me just to calm down from not having a release).
- Though very vanilla, she has quickly turned firm and assertive about sexual acts.
- She’s incorporated pegging into almost every sex session now. The harness, attachment, and lube stay bedside in her drawer.
- She is asking for things to be done outside the bedroom too. She wasn’t particularly dominant before. But she is becoming so—in a subtle way. I don’t think outsiders would notice much, but in our private interactions, she has definitely shifted. And this change happened in less than a week. My question: Has anyone else noticed or experienced unexpected changes in their key holders? I really like all these shifts and am sure more are coming. It’s such a contrast because it took about three years of frustration, miscommunication, arguments, and long talks before we started with chastity, so I never thought she would take to it as well as she has—almost like she found “the inner key holder”:shock: and now she won’t go back. Thanks, NewKnight