I’m completely new to this world. I’m a divorced woman who is otherwise normal, though perhaps a bit neurotic with my recovering Catholic background. My European stepmother was fixated on sexual purity, and my ex-husband was quite dominating; he wanted me to “switch” roles. I struggled with that because his authority felt overwhelming—perhaps it became MY authority figure rather than mine. Now that I’m free, I can explore recessive domme tendencies. I’ve given spankings before marriage, so I know the feeling is there.
What drew me here was my curiosity about prostate stimulation. I’ve read that a man can reach orgasm without any other kind of help and even without getting an erection.
I currently have someone who might respond well to domination, which could involve things like denying him his climax or self-denial. I want to know if there’s a device that, once inserted, stimulates the prostate so effectively that it becomes nearly impossible—or perhaps completely impossible—for him to avoid climaxing, even if he tries genuinely not to.
Ideally, I’d like something I can activate and leave running while he lies still and I watch from nearby. I could even step out of the room and return to see if his behavior merits a spanking for being such a naughty little boy. Then, we could use this device to teach him resistance or help him learn to go without orgasms—or erections—for long periods.
I realize this might be impossible. Having read so much recently, I know it’s something deeply interesting for me to explore. Does anyone know if such a device actually exists?
I don’t plan to rush into anything. I don’t want to scare him off. Right now, I only have suspicions; he likely has zero experience with anything beyond basic vanilla sex, and maybe not even that much of it. Any advice or links to helpful sites would be greatly appreciated. Thank you