Alright, I mentioned chastity to my wife and she agreed somewhat reluctantly. She got a copy of Sara Jameson’s book and has either read it or is in the process of doing so. Anyway, with her agreement, we started our journey beginning with 14 days of abstinence. The one thing she refused to give up was access to my cock and was very firm on that point. On day four, we had intercourse; I kept myself right at the edge several times without ejaculating. Day six brought some teasing from her for a brief period which was incredibly frustrating! We slept together again last night, but this time I lost control. I withdrew quickly and clamped down on my shaft, yet I still came…more of a dribble than anything else…was that a ruined orgasm? Following that incident, she declared that I must now wait thirty days before getting permission for a release. That works for me, though I have two queries.
- If I engage in intercourse with my wife, am I considered chaste provided I don’t ejaculate?
- I suspect my last event was a ruined orgasm since the lust hasn’t subsided; if so, does that count as having had a release? Apologies for the confusion—we are quite new to this lifestyle. She clearly did her homework because she pointed out that chastity entails denying intercourse, whereas I previously thought it only referred to denying ejaculation. Anyway, eager to hear your thoughts and will provide updates on what happens next. Are we looking at Day 1 of 30 or perhaps Day 8 of 38?