My wife is incredibly supportive and loving. She comes from a vanilla background but has accepted my interest in chastity, though she’s taken it to only so far. We own a Cock Cage (CB) and use it occasionally when I bring it up after we’ve gone quite some time without playing—I don’t bug her every single week; that’s not the case at all. For example, recently she mentioned she wasn’t feeling sexual and asked if she could go to bed early. I agreed but suggested she might lock me up. She nicely replied with “why not pretend you’re locked up.” The CB was under the bed, so I pointed out it isn’t really pretending if I actually wear one. After a little coaxing, she said sure. Every time I put it on, I offer for her to snap the lock shut, but she always says, “Ah, just do it yourself.” It feels like I’m pedaling my own fantasy; I truly want her to get more involved. She doesn’t tease me much while I’m locked—perhaps brushing against me right before play—but that is enough for now;)
I do my fair share of housework, but when I am locked up, I put in even more effort and treat her like royalty (massages, etc.) to see if she notices the benefits and how much more focused I become on her needs while chaste. However, she hasn’t quite caught the bug that it’s a win-win for both of us if I stay chastity locked up more often—any ideas on how to raise the stakes and get her more interested?