I’m wondering what other people have gone through. Since locking up on January 11th, I’ve only managed to reach an orgasm during PIV with my wife once. Recently and in previous years, though, I’ve had wet dreams. In one instance last night, my dream-self was being kinky; just as I was about to shoot my load onto her stomach, the sensation woke me up. Usually, when this occurs, I get up immediately to tidy away any emissions. It’s annoying because I’d prefer to stay in bed and savor that dream orgasm, especially since real-life ones are rare for me now. However, I’m concerned about making a mess and what my wife might think.
Does anyone else have similar experiences? What’s your approach? Do you just lie there and enjoy the nearest thing to an orgasm, or do you hop up quickly to prevent it from fully happening and head to the bathroom?