Female led relationships discussion

If the setup works for everyone involved, then it’s good. Most of us here live or dream outside traditional norms. While regular society might view this arrangement negatively, if the man is aware and likes it, and the woman enjoys having control and reaping its benefits, then go ahead.

I see it as a positive thing. As my KH says, men become their best selves when locked up; they are more focused, attentive, thoughtful, considerate, and useful. Even though I am just starting out on this path, I have already seen how true that is. To be fair, most of the time men ask for chastity themselves. I believe many of us always wanted a strong, confident woman to take charge over our bodies and decide when or if we get an orgasm. Sure, giving up control means being denied makes us pliable in her hands. My own KH often tells me how satisfying it is to know the extent of my suffering for her. Yet, that suffering brings satisfaction to me too. I find pleasure in the pain. The denial provides a dopamine-rich bliss from staying aroused and frustrated over long periods, which becomes a unique kind of joy. In my opinion, I really don't feel used at all. I agreed to it willingly. I get value from it. It seems only fair that she gets her benefits too.