I would love to hear your Origin Story! Here is mine: I used to be a top in the bedroom many years ago. After a few years of vanilla life, my wife and I decided to go back to Kink to meet new people after moving to NYC. Dec 2010: My wife had lost all desire to bottom however; So we went to our first party as Tops; I thought both being Tops and not playing together was a bit disappointing, so I proposed (naively) to bottom for her. New Year 2011: The next week, she topped me for the first time during a New Year party. We both felt a lot of connection and love through that experience! I woke up the next morning with a beautiful warm submissive feeling to my beautiful, powerful Queen… and a massive erection. I wouldn’t know how to explain it, but that erection, symbol of my virility and my masculine freedom felt inappropriate, almost insulting. I googled “erection control” and now I’m locked up!! 9 years ago! Please share your story! What is your Chastity-Anniversary?
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