Pet and I are nearing the finish line of our immigration journey, wrapping up our distance as it concludes. Recently, we’ve been discussing how our D/s dynamic will shift now that we’ll be sharing a roof daily. While there’s much I can’t foresee, I am certain our bond will deepen as we step into this new chapter.
As an often primal Dom/me, I do daydream about making @_and_smile spill under specific circumstances. As everyone knows, subdrop is the inevitable and inconvenient consequence of a full male orgasm. We’re considering strategies to mitigate these effects. While natural time heals all… I believe we can at least lessen the impact through additional ‘corrective’ measures.
For years, I’ve felt occasional urges to leave him completely empty, drawing out every drop of hard-earned and mostly-denied cum… multiple times daily for consecutive days. It’s been a long four years without this option since subdrop over distance is one of My least favorite things. But times are changing, so my mind is filled with daydreams of that not-so-distant future…
We’re spending the upcoming weekend together, and I mentioned keeping him unlocked so I can use him whenever I please, free from restrictions. I also brought up that desire as a possibility for when we settle in permanently. Here’s what followed. tumblr_paw07fKJSt1x2zbygo1_1280.jpg Such a good boy for Me.:love: --- I’ve tried immediate lockup before, and it definitely shortens his refractory period. However, as our exchange shows, I don’t want to rely exclusively on the cage to alter his behavior. He feels the same way.
We’ve discussed a post “Owner orgasm” rule; having him pleasure Me afterward, regardless of whether he’s full, should help reset his headspace faster.
I’m also considering ‘smothering’ him between My thighs while he spills, reinforcing that My pleasure is his responsibility. Making him associate his release with My wetness coating his face and My flesh against his mouth seems like it could yield lovely long-term results. I love mental shifts… reconfiguring his mind has been a delightful experience for us both.
I’m curious what measures you all take (aside from chastity) to manage subdrop after a full male orgasm. What works and what doesn’t in your relationships?