Chastity and orgasm denial discussion

“I always get a smile from someone who has it all figured out. Their way is the real way. Chastity has such a broad spectrum of uses, desires, implementation, reasons, and executions that to say any way is the “real” way, flabbergasts me. I find it similar when someone figures out religions. Some use chastity simply as a fun way to create anticipation. To extend fore play. Dominance or superiority has nothing to do with it. Does that make their journey any less real or true? Some implement an online keyholder, and some have a real life partner to do it. Does letting someone you will never have physical contact with, make chastity more real? Does having a wife that willingly does this make it more real? Heck some people even consider themselves “slaves” even though they are willing participants. Some here even think that there is non consenting consent. Is it more real that they feel they have no choice in the matter, or is it more real when you understand you have a choice and submit anyway? Absolutes are narrow minded and lack the imagination and probability of being fallible. If you believe you have figured out the one and truly “real” way of living any lifestyle, I have another absolute for you…you’re wrong. Keep em coming though, always fun to hear about the real way things should be.”,