Journals and blogs discussion

**Last night I discussed chastity with my wife for the first time! ** This is not something she is familiar with, and she wants to understand more about it. But she is very supportive of going down that track if that is what I want. So she will start looking at some stuff on male chastity so she can to learn about it. We have spoken orgasm denial, and that I can only cum when she says I can. She is intrigued about this concept lol. So, as of last night, I am on an honour system regarding my orgasms. We also discussed the punishment for breaches, and I joked ‘that is when the whip comes out’ and she replied ‘or an extra month without an orgasm’. She gets that bit! As they say in the Mansion, careful what you wish for!;) We had some discussion about cages and me being locked up, which she is also intrigued about. She is keen to see what these devices look like. But more research to be done there before launching in and buying a device. We discussed the importance of going slowly and not rushing things. And that we both need to be comfortable and need to communicate about all this. See what works for us. I mentioned that everyone keeps saying that how chastity works in practice is different for each couple and that there is no ‘correct’ way. After she learns more we will talk more about what might work (and importantly, what we don’t want). A memorable, and momentous, first night of the New Year. Love you Baby.:love: