It looks like I created an account on this site a while back without really realizing it, so I figure it’s polite to finally say hello. I am a male chastity lover from Kentucky (US) and have been wearing my cage intermittently since around 2013. Although I am bisexual, I noticed early on that sexual activity with others only felt good before the climax; afterward, I genuinely felt repulsed by both myself and my partner. Because of this realization, I stopped pursuing sex after just a few partners and have relied on self-pleasure ever since, as it feels much more natural (and less gross) to me. The first cage I purchased came from eBay, bought specifically to serve as an incentive for losing weight. I set goals and a target weight, using the orgasm as my reward for every 10 pounds shed, with the cage acting as a constant reminder of what I was working toward. It worked amazingly well, but once I hit my goal and removed it, I noticed many areas of my life started to slip. As I quickly learned, I simply function better when wearing a cage with scheduled releases rather than just drifting through time on my own. I currently own 6 cages and am still searching for the perfect one for very extended use. I don’t really care much for keyholder or powerplay dynamics, but having that perpetual reminder to rise above my basic urges inspires me to improve every aspect of my life.
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