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Chastity and orgasm denial discussion

member_7c44c44051 · 2026-09-08T22:05:34.000Z · 0 replies

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Hi all,

I have a Female-Led Relationship with a sub I just met. The tricky part is that I’ve never been in a long-distance relationship before (he works out of town two weeks each month) and I’m used to subs being within 30 minutes’ drive for my convenience. So, I’m fairly new to this dynamic over distance and would appreciate some advice.

Psychological dominance and mind control are right up my alley; they’ve always been the first step in training, especially when he’s physically present. I’ve been wondering if any of you have thoughts on maintaining that specific type of dominance across distances.

One idea I’ve tried is sleep deprivation, having him text me every 15 minutes during the night to tell me how much he enjoys being my slave. (I often fantasize about brainwashing and behavior modification, and he’s ready to do whatever it takes to please me, regardless of how strict things get.)

Thank you in advance for your thoughts, Jessie L.

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