Chastity and orgasm denial discussion

Like most of us I have read all the wonderful things that will benefit our KH if only they lock us and deny us. As I mentioned in another post, how interesting that when we are young, women are denying us orgasms all the time and as we get older, we beg for them to deny us.:) Anyway in year 5 of chastity play I find myself doing less for my wife and she is doing more; because she wants to. Today she told me that I am the best husband in the world. Said that her girlfriends in every place we lived have told her how lucky she was to have married me. Some of the reasons are looks, intelligence, income, sense of humor, easy going and wanted to make my wife happy all the time. I do not demand that she cook or clean. If I sense she is tired or sick, I make sure that she does not cook. I will order out or ask for something easy like a PB&J sandwich or scrambled eggs. She never had to work and despite her never being able to have kids, I never mention it, even when we argue. I am legally sterile but I still have a lot of good sperm in me that they could have extracted and fertilized one of her eggs but as her doctor told me, she could never carry a baby to term due to extensive scar tissue after several surgeries. I have always said it was because of me, not her that we could not even do artificial insemination when it became available. I also told her that I did not want kids anyway. She has always said that I am a good husband and need not need to do much to improve but as a man, she knew that those little things would never change. She never wanted me to worship her or stop being the big strong alpha male she married. She wants little and yet I buy her a lot. New cars for her birthday when she never complained about her old car. Expensive clothes and everything I saw that I thought she would like. Yet she still wears clothes on sale and wears very little jewelry. She is greatful for the lifestyle I have provided her and the kindness I have shown her. She loves that I say I lover her and desire her daily, making her feel like the most desirable 65 year old woman around. I never asked her to work but she could if she wanted to. When she did I supported her even when her expenses exceed her income. She never asked me to be a better husband. Instead she asked me why did I marry her when I could have done much better. I always respond by telling her that I am the lucky one and could never have done any better. My wife has find a way to deny me orgasms without being cruel or requiring me to grovel at her feet or give up my alpha personality. She does not want to be worshipped, just loved like I am doing every day. I do not know if it is old age or the long term effects of chastity which gave my wife the only opportunity to not share me with anyone else and having control over our sex life which she never enjoyed until chastity came along. She really feels that I gave her a special gift out of love and respect when I gave her control over my penis, or her penis as she is getting used to calling it lately. I read so many chastity post by guys who talk about chastity making them submissive to their wives. Making them want to do more for their wives then they currently do. In some cases to worship at their wife’s feet and act as her slave. My wife no longer wants me to massage her feet or body. She wants no signs of submission, just my cooperation to deny my orgasm for the time period she wants. Not many years ago, my wife was mostly into girls but now since it has just been the two of us, she is enjoying sex with me again. This week she passed out for a second or two from a very intense orgasm that left her so dizzy that she could not stand up for a minute or two. My wife still prefers a woman to live with if I was not around but she still loves me above all other men and is orgasming better with me than she has ever with a girl. That is good news since we do not have intercourse at all and so it is a level playing field with women.:) Just thought I would jot this down since my wife was very sincere about her feelings for me and how happy her life hsa been. Am I the only one who is enjoying more benefits from chastity than their KH/wife? Are you also able to engaged n chastity play without acting like a submissive but rather as a man who has promised his wife control over his penis. A control that can be rescinded if you wanted to but yet you do not? I think I am getting soft in my old age. Heck I never cried watching a movie until I was 64 and it was an action movie at that. This week has been good. My wife is teasing me daily and OK with an extra sex night each week. My wife is generally reserved and rarely talks about her feelings. I never know how she feels so I tend to overcompensate because of it. Her cruel father made her feel that it was a woman’s place to endure everything in silence. She never even liked to talk about sex despite doing some of the yuckiest and painful fetishes. She especially was grateful for the way I handled her coming out a bisexual. In our time no one accepted bisexuals, not even the gay/lesbian community. My wife was labeled as a lesbian and yet she wanted to date men and marry one. She wanted to be romanced by a man, not a woman. She just needs both a woman and man in her life but once I am gone it will be women only for her. There were times when I felt that she no longer was interested in me but now I know differently. She never called herself bisexual until recently and was ashamed that she was what she was told was an abomination against god. She said I made her comfortable in her own skin and comfortable as a bisexual with no judgement at all. I have never used that against her no matter how heated the argument. I was OK when she wanted her girlfriend to live with us. No matter what she did or wanted, I supported her and she did the same. Chastity is bringing this all out somehow but not exactly sure why. Any suggestions or similar stories.?