My wife and I have been embracing my chastity since 2004. For the past four months, she has taken things very seriously, and we’ve established a formal agreement for the first time. She permits me to leave her control only four times annually; today marks one of those occasions as it is her birthday. However, tonight’s condition was that I would not be allowed an orgasm. I remained restrained with pleasure available but no release. After an hour had passed, I returned to my cage.
The next opportunity for unlock comes in 106 days, followed by another one after that in 125 days, and then a quicker return of just 46 days later.
I share all this context because if you want to be securely locked up under your wife or mistress for the long haul, I believe using a PA piercing is essential. These devices are usually custom-made and come with a higher price tag. Of course, “long-term” varies; some couples consider 30 days lengthy, while others look at months or even years (yikes!!).
So here’s my advice if you don’t have a PA yet but are committed to long-term male chastity: first, get the piercing done. Typically, they start with either a 12-gauge or 10-gauge wire, which has quite a small diameter. After 30 days of healing, begin hanging a small padlock on your PA ring while wearing boxers; this allows gravity to gradually stretch the hole. Next, buy a larger captive bead ring and hang one or two locks on it, continuing up until you reach a 6-gauge or even a 4-gauge thickness. This stretching process might take about four to six months.
Meanwhile, start saving money each week for your stainless steel custom device designed for long-term wear. If reaching that 6-gauge takes four months, set aside roughly $30 per week toward the cost of around $450. For example, The Contender starts at $275; adding the PA option ($125) and a few other features can push it into the mid-$400s, which is absolutely worth it!! Once ready, contact someone like Mark at Male Chastity Now to have your custom device made in about two weeks.
I currently use The Contender he crafted for me. It’s 100% comfortable and completely secure. There is simply no way out unless I cut into my flesh or bring in a hacksaw for the steel. While I can escape plastic devices with some effort, this one holds firm. My wife is delighted to have me locked up because it aligns with what we both desire, so we invested in that custom stainless device from Male Chastity Now.
Many reputable manufacturers produce excellent custom devices suitable for PA or frenum piercings. These types of appliances are the surest way to prevent escape and masturbation during lockup periods.