Hello everyone, Let me introduce myself… I’m Canadian, currently residing in Thailand. My Thai spouse is eighteen years younger than me, and we’ve been married for over twenty-five years. We have always practiced a female-led dynamic, but it has grown stronger since our children moved out a few years back. I am also retired now, which provides us with even more liberty and time to enjoy this way of life.
One key distinction about us is that I remain unlocked. My wife doesn’t object to the idea of locking me up; we just haven’t done it yet. Moreover, I retain the freedom to masturbate whenever I choose, whether she is watching or if I am by myself. The rule is simply that I cannot climax. Thus far, I have gone 24 days without an orgasm. My previous ejaculation was accidental and happened while my wife was present. Suffice it to say, i paid a pretty stiff penalty for that slip-up. Since my wife rarely sets specific targets, I truly don’t know when she will grant permission for me to climax again…perhaps never, or maybe soon.
I am, and have always been, a frequent masturbator. On most days, I spend three to four hours doing it, sometimes more, sometimes less. Frequently (once or twice daily), my wife instructs me to count out my edges for her approval. She requires that i tally up to 20 between each edge. Once i resume, it only takes a few seconds before i reach the peak again. Typically, she has me count through 20 or 30 edges. When I am alone and masturbating, i have both the liberty and permission from her to proceed as i like…without climaxing of course.
Additionally, part of our daily routine includes my maintenance spankings or canings. i must receive 20 strokes with her cane on my bare bottom and legs in the morning, 15 more in the afternoon, and 25 in the evening. These are mandatory and happen every day. Besides these scheduled sessions, if there are any errors, perceived mistakes, or transgressions by me, she will unilaterally decide upon extra punishment for them, which usually means an additional number of cane strokes.
And naturally, she often desires to cause me pain simply for her own amusement and pleasure, and i must submit to these as per her wishes. She has a special fondness for hurting my testicles, and most days, she enjoys playing with them.
For her benefit, i give her a body cream massage after her morning shower and again in the evening. After each session, i please her orally, bringing her to orgasm. Following that, she administers my daily maintenance caning, which often leaves her feeling desirous, leading me to bring her to a second or even third climax with my mouth. Of course, sexual intercourse is off-limits for us; we haven’t had it in nearly two decades.
Anyway, i hope to be a frequent contributor here.