Chastity and orgasm denial discussion

Am I right in thinking there is a movement toward talking about orgasms (including that nail-biting build-up to them) at the cost of actual chastity? That has been my impression since joining here several years ago. Maybe those checks and balances I was used to seeing when I first arrived have disappeared. So many posts now seem entirely focused on the male orgasm, counting how many minutes (seemingly) until the next one, as if men’s focus has shifted from the positive benefits of chastity (long-term, locked or any other variation) toward their next great life goal - the orgasm - and wondering will he or won’t he achieve it? And how many days since the last one? Constantly reading about them has been harder than any month-long chastity period I have experienced. I mention this because the site is called the community last time I checked (not Orgasm Central). People surely must have more to say about the advantages - psychological, emotional, spiritual, physical - of chastity instead of posting endless mind-numbing reports on what an endurance test it’s been getting to the next ‘Big O’ (‘Pretty Woman’ was always my personal favourite!) For a start (and please feel free to build on this) there is little doubt that chastity does substantially heighten awareness in many areas of life (i.e., not just sexual). It has sharpened my focus on the things that are important and dear to me. This has translated into respect for all living beings, care of the planet we all share (it’s actually very tiny and fragile once you get some perspective), increased understanding of the need for far more female authority and leadership in all areas of society. There’s more, I’ll elaborate if this thread goes anywhere.