After more than four years my wife and I decided to go with the flow. We were mostly focused on long-term denial. Then at the end of year four we took a two-month break but started chastity up again. When you wear something on your penis for years, you just get used to it much like any ring or watch you wear. We were doing three to four weeks of denial until just now. Last night my wife denied me but it was the best edging she had ever given me. She brought me to the edge and held me there for half an hour. She knows all my orgasm “tells” so she can play me like a fiddle.
Today she told me that she wants me to orgasm every week. She enjoys teasing me and then having me orgasm with her. Her only rule was that I do not masturbate outside of sex with her. Well, I cannot promise that so we are going to try locking me up Monday night when she goes out to play Mah Jong and unlocking me on the weekend when we have sex. I think that is workable, but I may try to just do away with the Jailbird. I am getting itchy skin tags from the ring rubbing against my scrotum. One month of orgasm denial is my sweet spot so we went 3.5 weeks this time and I had a great orgasm. Controlling my diabetes has also helped a lot in the erection and orgasm department. My poor wife got drenched when I orgasmed and had to take a shower. It was good because she edged me first. So I might try going a week on the honor system but if I get tempted I will lock up. As I have said before, we will play it by ear.