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Chastity and orgasm denial discussion

member_5ff7ee2129 · 2026-09-07T16:29:25.000Z · 0 replies

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2026-09-07T16:29:25.000Z #1

Hi all, this is my first time posting here so I hope I’ve landed in the correct spot.

My fiancée and I bought an 8” dildo for me to use on her about two months ago. Since I usually only ejaculate once every couple of weeks, I haven’t been able to hold out long enough.

I often fantasize about thrusting into her with the dildo without it feeling like I’m wearing anything (think of her riding me or similar positions).

Does anyone have suggestions for a strap-on harness that works well? Vacu-lock is what I’d prefer. My waist measures around 42 inches, and I consider myself quite large.

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