Introductions discussion

This post might attract more criticism than praise or likes, but… and I accept the “different strokes for different folks” idea. However, some of what I read here makes me shake my head. I hope people are just acting out a fantasy scenario and documenting it, because certain posts (NOT ALL) describe disrespect and disregard that is quite saddening. I wish marriage union and “love for each other” meant more to some than their recent posts suggest. …Perhaps many of the posts I read are more about fantasy or playing a role rather than being 100% real… but… I don’t see why anyone needs to be “punished or denied just to be nicer to the person they chose”..until death do us part.. Personally, I struggle with the idea of a wife denying her husband an orgasm, or vice versa. I’m not convinced by the “better mood” and “more attentive” arguments… A spouse (male or female) who takes their partner for granted is, IMO, guaranteeing future failure. A husband should always be in “courting” mode (as should his wife); he shouldn’t need to be desperate just to “get off” to act like a nice guy and do things for her around the house. I cook our meals not because I have to, but because my schedule permits it, I’m a better cook, and she enjoys the result appreciates my effort. I rub her feet, shoulders, neck, back, or whatever whenever we are close enough. I do this because I enjoy touching her, and I can see that she likes it too. I clean the house with her and handle ALL of the yard work because it is OUR home. I play with and care for the kids because doing so makes them strong, productive members of society, and I want to. They are the ones who come to me when hurt, scared, or calling out from a bad dream or illness/need for help. I have an HTv.2 that is currently over the Atlantic in UPS’s possession. I will be self-locking under my business attire at work not as a way to deny myself anything, but actually to highlight my sexuality. Men and women flirt with me regularly (my wife finds this hilarious and is proud that others find her husband appealing too)- the device isn’t there to ensure I don’t do anything, but to build tension and feel pressure, so my release AND orgasm later that night are even more explosive and harder to hold back from. I have sex with my wife every other night, if not nightly—barring sickness, injury, or other issues. Sometimes it is more “down to business,” while at other times we spend time on massage, manual foreplay, oral, etc. She craves my cock inside her- she enjoys the entire lead-up, but THAT is what she ultimately wants. Usually, she reaches 2-3 “big” orgasms before I finish teasing/pleasing her and allow myself to reach mine. My cock belongs to her not because she declares it so… but because I say so. As the old saying goes: “…you catch more flies with honey than vinegar..” -Husbands, respect your wives- leave your dicks alone, pay attention to her, treat her like a magical, priceless object that will simply vanish (go elsewhere) if you don’t show/verbalize it; act as if you are casting a spell or chanting a mantra. -Wives, locking his cock up and being mean/denying him won’t make him faithful forever, nor will it make him truly respect you. If you deny and disrespect him long enough the branch will break, and he’ll find another way. If partners only remembered the golden rule and treated their “chosen one” with the same respect, dignity, and love they desire…