Hi there.
I’m Tom, a submissive who is fifty years old. I first discovered modern chastity at a CFNm (clothed female nude male) gathering around the time the original CB2000 was released. One of the submissives in attendance had one on and it really impressed me. Before that, I’d only seen photos of steel full belts but never anything quite like it, certainly not face-to-face. It surprised me to think any man would actually commit to wearing such a thing.
Something must have taken hold because pretty soon I was constantly thinking about it and eager to give it a go. So I picked one up at the local sex shop. I spent some time experimenting with it, but never managed to wear it for more than a day or two at a stretch. When the CB3000 arrived, I grabbed one and tried again; this time even getting my girlfriend involved. But that attempt didn’t quite work out as hoped either.
Later on, I moved house and met a Domme who introduced me to this community. That was trial three for me. Fast forward through the long story: I met my ex-partner and we shared an excellent D/s dynamic, so I ordered a Jailbird from Mature Metal. I got the sizing wrong initially, and since we were in the midst of breaking up at that time, I set it aside until recently when I sent it back to get resized. Receiving it back, I finally secured a device that fit perfectly (photos coming soon). However, without someone holding the key, my interest waned. That changed this week. Having spent plenty of time here and around other subs wearing chastity devices, I wanted to prove I could last one month inside a device without ejaculating. So I reached out to a Dom whom my ex and I had played with before, asking if he’d be interested in being my key holder given that he is bisexual. He was curious about the concept and keen on domming me, so he said yes.
So here’s the plan: spend the next few days getting accustomed to the Jailbird, then hand over control of my manhood during the first turnover. I’m also ditching all male underwear and returning to wearing panties! I thought it would be good to share this journey with those who are interested.