Chastity and orgasm denial discussion

My wife and I just brought back corporal punishment if I request sex or an orgasm. Registered users can view my photo gallery and see the results of a paddling and caning from our last time using corporal punishment. I started pestering my wife for orgasms and sex, so she wanted to return to how we used to handle it. As a result, I have not mentioned an orgasm or sex all week.:) The big difference this time around is that even if my wife asks me during the heat of the moment while having sex, I have to say no or face punishment. Same goes for her asking if I want to have sex. She can notify me ahead of time about sex or just tell me to get into the bedroom now. I like the suspense of it. Supposedly she will make me beg not to give me an orgasm for another month or whatever she decides. We haven’t done that yet and don’t know if she is really up to it. She doesn’t play her dominant role well. I keep giving her the green light to take 100% control in the bedroom, and we make a little progress each year. She still does not project a Mistress demeanor though. She is too kind, and I don’t think I really want to bring her into the dark side where our girlfriend dwelled. That girl enjoyed hurting men. Any of you receive corporal punishment for anything chastity related? I prefer it to getting the silent treatment. This way it is all over with quickly and no need to dwell on it.