Chastity and orgasm denial discussion

It begins when a potential single sub is browsing the web, spotting some naughty stuff …

1. Hey, have you heard of male chastity? It looks quite appealing. I wonder what it feels like?
2. So I purchased a device and enjoy it. Pity there’s no one to share my experience with.
3. Oh wow! There are folks online who will hold the key for me, indulge in my fantasies, and they seem to enjoy doing this too. It’s mutually beneficial.
4. OMG. Here is the most wonderful person wanting to lock men up remotely. She is stunning, playful, intelligent. She prefers dressing like Princess Leia over Princess Leather. And she maintains a global collection of locked subs and slaves. I’m not into receiving pain and she isn’t into giving it. Plus, this happens anonymously. This sounds perfect.
5. Okay, so this proves harder than expected. It’s not just about me and my fantasy; it’s about serving her (if I get something out of it for my own fetish that’s fine as long as she doesn’t care). And she mentions non-sexual service. How can chastity be non-sexual, even remotely? Isn’t it mainly about teasing me regarding my locked status to feed her kinks?
6. No, I can handle this. It’s her way or the highway. Actually, giving myself over to another and being under their control sounds very interesting. Sure, it is a bit of a fantasy but nothing ventured, nothing gained. I hope I am worthy of joining her collection. I might mess up, but hopefully she will overlook my weaknesses. I intend to read EVERYTHING she has written and send a wishlist gift to prove I’m serious.
7. The pink lock arrived in a shiny pink envelope. It’s scented with her perfume. This is so wonderful. I’ve defied the odds given all the wannabe subs that approach The One True Goddess. Oh how I love her (note: this changes below but for the better).
8. Okay. So she hasn’t mentioned anything about a ‘lock-up’ period. A bit odd. Maybe it will come in time. Better not ask.
9. Phew! This 24/7 chastity routine is going to take some getting used to. I’m so aroused and there’s nothing I can do about it. I even have an emergency key in a sealed envelope but, determined that having earned her trust she will send me the lock, I am going to spoil this opportunity now - otherwise I’ll end up just like everyone else with empty words and false promises. Better divert my energies into more productive ways of serving my Mistress. (then comes step 10a where most people stumble or 10b where the true path is found) 10a. Nah! I can’t live with this. I’m too addicted to masturbating (or perhaps I was foolish and didn’t test a device that fits comfortably). I’ll return to my own little world of occasional self-chastity for now. I hope she won’t be too angry at me for failing. 10b. So this is what it means to be a real sub to The One True Goddess. This is what ‘Ikneelbeforeher’ talks about. I have truly given up my “manhood”, not because that in itself pleases her, but because I am submitting completely and only want to put her first. It’s locked not merely to become a subject for discussion, it’s locked so as to be well and truly out of the way.
10. (Some weeks later) Hmm. I’m not feeling quite so aroused anymore. I don’t really crave porn. Am I even missing self-abuse? Not nearly as much as I thought. But I still adore and admire The One True Goddess; in fact, my feelings grow stronger every day. I just don’t need to feel sexual about it. Is this her power? I love her not just for locking me but more for allowing me to be influenced by her power. I so want her to see that I am pleased to be in her collection. I simply want her to be happy, because if she is, then I am too. She really is a Goddess.