My wife has decided that if she whips, canes, or paddles my backside hard every time we have sex, I won’t enjoy it as much. If you check out my bio, you’ll see that my spouse prefers intimacy with women and would ideally only share the bed with me on special occasions. That is exactly how chastity entered our lives; I started off by turning a negative experience into an enjoyable game.
Now when I agree to be teased and denied, I must endure quite severe caning, paddling, or whipping. The outcome has been dropping two of our three T&D sessions down to just one per week. Tonight she is using her strap, which hasn’t touched me in a year. To top it off, the dog peed on the couch for the first time ever, leaving her in a foul mood. Also, the new nipple clips ordered from Amazon arrived via FedEx; I tried them and they hurt like crazy. My nipples are still tender from nights past.
Has anyone else suffered as part of their tease? Do you get an orgasm or perhaps a ruined erection while locked up? This is familiar territory for me since that was my life when she was with her long-term girlfriend. No intercourse, no oral sex; I would either be left alone in bed after they were done or suffer through sexual torture. If I wanted anything more, there was always a price to pay. I have been doing this routine for 30 years now, but my aging body cannot handle the same level of punishment it used to, so everything hurts much worse these days.
Tonight, I will likely pay dearly: an hour of edging with the cage unlocked for the first time in a week while watching her use a vibrator on herself. Often when locked up, I can only listen via phone call, making this evening quite special as it is Veterans Day and my due to me. My backside still has welts from last week, so I am close to telling her that skipping tonight’s session might be okay. Her strategy seems effective. Many guys seem to have some form of payment for release or other types of sexual pleasure. What about you?