Well, I’ve finally found someone and we’ve been at this for more than a year. As our D/s dynamic deepens, it’s become clear that besides her control over me, the struggle itself is what truly brings her joy.
It has been four months since my last orgasm. During workdays, I wear my CB3000 chastity cage, and on weekends off from work, I spend time being teased. Over the past month or so, there have been plenty of strokes without release; she has brought out most of her toys just to watch me struggle more with each attempt to hold back.
I’ve been searching for methods that make it easier for her while teasing me, allowing her to relax and enjoy herself.
Lately, I’ve been considering sex machines. They are impressive, but they mostly rely on a silicone sleeve that provides stimulation directly to the penis head—a bit too much intensity for my liking.
Then I started Googling and stumbled upon something that seems like it might be just right: a homemade device designed to stroke the shaft of the penis while avoiding direct pressure or friction on the glans (head). [[Image: File_002.gif]](the referenced community page) [[Image: File_003.gif]](the referenced community page)
This setup would be ideal because she could simply leave me there and observe the entire process from a distance.
Unfortunately, I haven’t been able to find such devices available for purchase. Not knowing how to build an effective one myself, my search continued until I eventually gave up trying to buy it and decided to create something similar on my own. [[Image: File_000 (2).jpeg]](the referenced community page)
My approach was to first get a working prototype before upgrading it with more durable materials. This process has been—and continues to be—a bit of a headache as I try to figure out the correct measurements, stroke length, and power requirements.
Should I stick with developing this stroker machine? I believe I should, since my struggle is what makes her happy.
Does anyone have experience or knowledge that could guide me?