My KH @Mistress Amanté has chosen that we ought to have a list of expectations, ten things covering how I can bring her more joy, which in turn brings me happiness! Upon reading it, my desire was to press my face into her chest and declare she is perfect. Instead, I gave her a deep kiss and expressed my gratitude. It didn’t capture just how much I valued the loving nature of our dynamic, the committed control she has promised, or the chance for me to truly feel like I am serving her.
It wasn’t about listing every kinky task she might request. She already knows I have few boundaries. Nor was it about altering our feelings toward one another, nor about release schedules or whether I get orgasms. It was an acceptance of who I am and what I need.
It was carefully considered and phrased beautifully. I found myself so aroused reading it that I’ve gone over it twenty times since she handed it to me. It set expectations but left space for specific activities she might introduce if she felt they suited us both.
Thank you, Ms Amante, I love you more each day.