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I was curious if any other couples who enjoy not just chastity but also various d/s kinks have a list of what’s off the table regarding limits and expectations.
- If I ask to be unlocked for medical or emotional reasons, I expect that request to be honored.
- No extreme pain or blood. So no stepping on, squeezing, slapping my balls or face. No cutting or inserting weird objects into my urethra.
- I am not a butler. I can and will help out as much as possible, and I’m pretty accommodating by nature. I don’t want a list of housework or chores dictating how or if I get released. By all means, if I said I would do something and didn’t, I don’t mind that leading to punishment, but even though I am sexually submissive, I dislike having too much power dynamic in the rest of our relationship. The same applies to money and decision-making. Submissive or not, I’m still an adult.
- Not into the cuckold scene. I think the whole idea is probably the most submissive gesture a man can give, while going through with it is the most dominant act. I imagine the love and trust given and received by letting a loved one experience carnal pleasure for its own sake is immense. If I reached a point where I couldn’t give that to her anymore, I wouldn’t be opposed, but as things stand, I am capable of erections, can use toys, and have my tongue. If it ever got to that point, I would want to be present and see the loving glance from her as she was receiving my gift to her. Until then however, I have no interest in seeing her getting railed by some well-endowed stud.
- Not into potty stuff. I don’t mind accidents or incidental contact from playing around. But I don’t get off on drinking pee, being intentionally pissed on, or taking a crap on my chest.
- Apathy. D/S is work for both; it takes patience and commitment to be submissive, effort and time to be dominant. I won’t accept being ignored. This isn’t the Ronco rotisserie where you set it and forget it. The price of my sexual submission is that I need attention. She decides what that will entail and when, but if she doesn’t want control anymore, we take off the lock and resume when she can better care for her things. I’m not talking about orgasms, or even releases from the cage. I mean keeping me on edge mentally. That’s it for me; those are my hard limits. What are yours?
