mid_sentence_m Member Thread starter We have a safeword and it works exactly as intended, which is that everything stops and we sit up and have a conversation. That is correct for actual problems.
What we do not have is the smaller version. The one that means keep going but back off, or that was too much, without the whole thing coming to a halt and both of us checking in for five minutes.
What do other people use for the middle of the scale?