This seems connected to Female-Led Relationships. Are there other men here who skip the chastity cage? Do any of their partners prefer that he stays unencumbered, even while practicing orgasm control and semen retention? I’ve never used a device; typically she lets me go for two weeks before allowing an ejaculation, though sometimes she pushes it to five weeks if I’m handling it well. When I hit rough patches, she usually supports me through them verbally. It’s not always simple—just as I feel like I can relax, I have to boost my willpower again.
What do we gain? She gets a man who is attentive, thoughtful, and full of admiration. For me, the rewards are continuous: more energy, heightened awareness, and a deeper respect for female wisdom and intellect…
I hadn’t thought about wearing a device until coming here. I’m not certain I will, but it’s intriguing. Wearing one likely demands even greater resolve, particularly over long stretches. Five weeks seemed like an eternity to me before, yet men here last months or even years in cages. I doubt my mental fortitude is quite there yet, though I believe I could gradually build up to it.
