Hey fans of kink and chastity, I could use some advice.
Those who follow my posts know how much fun it is for me to tease hubby while he’s locked in his cock cage. You might have seen my She-Nanigans threads here before. I’m hunting for new inspiration—something unique to buy him or a creative long-term setup that feels fresh. What scenarios do you dream about your partner doing with or for you? [Image: 18475-1471717191-2904aca25f8e449e0f63fe4e273e886f.jpg]
Before the comments get wild, here’s a rundown of our preferences and boundaries:
We’re both straight (I’ve experimented with women slightly, but my heart is set on him). Absolutely no cuckolding! He’s fully hetero. We adore bondage, light role-play, and lots of teasing. Lingerie dressing up appeals to us too—even he sometimes wears it for the shock factor. Our toy collection is huge: restraints, vibrators, dildos, rope, collars, cuffs, spreader bars, nipple clamps, butt plugs, a spiky wheel thing, plus countless others. He’s invested in my Vixen Clothes (Dominatrix-style black leather bustiers, corsets, stockings, garters, tall boots, and stripper heels). I honestly wonder how much he’s spent on these!
Some items look intimidating to ask about… but since he bought them all, I assume they’re fair game for him too? And if we lack something specific, online shopping makes it easy enough.
I love watching his reaction when I wear sexy lingerie around the house (it turns him into a hungry beast). He acts like locking up is no fun, but deep down he enjoys that push-pull dynamic. As a flight attendant, I often lock him away during my 2–4 day trips. Sometimes I leave him locked for just a day at home to build his desire before I return. We value regular sex too much to keep him confined longer than necessary. His record is eight days, which nearly broke him (poor guy…:p). Neither of us wants extremely long-term chastity for him. Honestly, wearing stylish lingerie at home satisfies most of my needs.
Since keeping things exciting matters to me, I’m seeking fresh concepts. Perhaps a new device? Something bold we haven’t tried yet? Or just an excellent BDSM session?
Share your thoughts… What would blow your mind if your wife did _____________?