Journals and blogs discussion

When close partners are making love, there is a chance to “hit the spot” by mentioning something that aligns with their partner’s favorite fantasy. This can be backed up with reality or left as word. If it involves promising certain action(s), those actions (for example, doing something humiliating or painful for a masochist) might be postponed and used as foreplay in the next time together. The promise can also be dropped once orgasm is achieved. Regardless of which path you take, it serves to supercharge your partner’s climax. It’s a gift from a skilled lover. All good. My wife has done this with me, frequently delaying her follow-through. But if she were to suddenly honor all her pillow talk promises right now, I’d be facing many years of strict bondage and probably getting beaten up while wearing whatever the heck! I usually can’t say things like that to my wife because my mouth is busy. Ss